JGnat, I don't set out to confront him, it just happens. He asked me why I came to JWD and I said "for support, to read others' experiences, and to keep up on the latest teachings (without having to read all the crap in his magazines)". He made some comment about something doctrinal (I can't remember what...I must have blocked it out ) and we fell down the slippery slope into JW land. I just can't let it go when he makes dumb comments about stuff that he's read that is so blatantly incorrect. I really have to work on just letting it go!
Thanks for the link, I haven't looked at it yet but am going there right now.